Posted by: zephaniah317 | February 18, 2007

Did Eldredge Miss Something?

Another thought in my head as I awakened this morning at 4:30 (like usual – stinkin’ PST):  I recall very well John Eldredge talking about “Father Wounds” in Wild At Heart and how Jesus wants to take us men there and heal us.  I don’t remember, however, Eldredge talking about forgiving his father.  Does anyone else out there?  Just wondering.

Albuquerque, here we come.

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  1. Not sure if Eldredge did however Robert Lewis did in his Mens fraternity series.
    from Session 6, Facing the Father Wound…
    in the workbook found here (thanks again Google)
    http://www.thechapel.com/men/thequest/ OR
    http://www.thechapel.com/men/thequest/studyguide-nov06-2.pdf

    Addressed in Section II, D. 1. with a verse!

    “Session 6 FACING THE FATHER WOUND
    I. Let’s Summarize Where We Are
    A. We are in the process of seeking to make sense of __why__ we are the ___way__ we are.
    1. Each of us has a __story__ to tell
    2. Each of us, to some degree, a __product__ of the past.
    3. Each of us is, in some ways, __is_controlled__ by the past until we consciously and willfully choose to break that control.
    B. We are exploring the first of five major wounds in life that __shares__ us.
    C. This wound is being inflicted upon sons at __epidemic_levels__ today.
    II. Eight Proactive Remedies for the Absent Father Wound
    A. If you’re a Dad…… make sure your son(s) has “__the_essentials__”
    Make sure he hears …_
    I love you, I’m proud of you, You’re Good.
    Make sure he has…………
    B. If you’re a Dad…it’s never too late to “__close_the_gap__” with your son(s), no matter how old.
    C. If you’re a single Dad, or a Dad separated from your son(s) by divorce, or a Dad who ha inherited a son(s) through remarriage, __seek_help_and_a_sound_strategy__. (read read read)
    D. If you’re a son wounded by Dad… choose to touch this wound __responsibly__.
    1. By choosing to __FORGIVE__ your Dad. (Hebrews 12:9-10).

    2. By choosing to believe in __Gods_justice__.
    E. If you’re a son wounded by Dad… __courageously_seek_reconciliation__ with your father.
    1. There may be separation between you and your Dad that springs from Dad’s __relational _shortcomings__. Don’t let that stop you!
    2. There may be separation between you and your Dad that spring from __past_conflict__.
    F. If you’re a son wounded by Dad… risk asking for your __fathers_love___.
    G. If you’re a son wounded by Dad…risk asking for your __fathers_blessings__.
    H. If you’re a son wounded by Dad… __reclaim__ the relationship you missed by becoming a __good Dad__ to your children.”

  2. I realize you know and understand we need to forgive our fathers, I just thought this was an excellent resource discussing this very topic and worthy of a post. Thanks N.

  3. Me too!

  4. Z, I had to delete your post! You blew J’s cover! For shame! 😉

    TJ, thanks for the info. I’ll delve into it more deeply when I have a chance.


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